Two questions

I have two questions about my life.
One is my relationship with my daughters and the another one is my education in my future.

Yesterday I found an article on the Internet that tells about relationship between mother and daughter. I have not read them all yet but it looks very interesting.
So I am going to read it (it is only a few pages) and if possible I want to read whole her (the author) book.
If I read through, I might be able to find a tip of hints to have better relationship with my daughters.
And also I would like them to read the Japanese version if they could have one.

Next question is, why is it common sense that over fifties people especially women don't need more education?
Most of people in Japan have got these thought and my darling too.
It is terrible. They are going to take my learning opportunity out from me. So I love New Zealand much much better than Japan.
Japan has really strange common senses a lot! I hate them and I moved to overseas.
( This is totally complaint) In Japan, I guess more than 95% of people are thinking over forties women should stay home and do anything.
I found in overseas, all women enjoy their job and except the the period that they are bringing children, they want to have a job whole their life till the retirement.
However these women need higher education equivalent to men but in Japan, according to funny common sense, women don't need higher education than men.
Recently the idea has been changed but still most women don't have enough education that they are able to keep their carrier till their retirement.
And people with lower education can not really enjoy their job.
For example, who really enjoy the cleaning or wash dishes? no one...
They are not creative job at all however some one must do these job in this world, terrible isn't it?
So I don't like housekeeping to others. To myself or my family are OK however it is still no paid work and not many people respect it.

Hmm.. I was probably better to born as a boy. No, no. Women should have same  rights with men. Although recently we are almost equal, not quite equal yet particularly in the developing countries.  

(I have just stopped to write now because my brain does not work very well as I should think about a lot of things at this moment.)