With My Darling

I was thinking he was grumpy to ME, but today I thought he has got another cause too, so I had a bit sense of security.
He says that people here are stupid, intellectual level is low. He said that he talked about boy racers. I said that boy racers everywhere.
I guess he is very unhappy about his current job.
He also keeps saying that he does not like here, even he hates here.
But I like here much better than Wellington.
However if he really want to back to Wgtn, that is OK. I just follow him.
But as he says Porirua region would be fine, not Lower Hutt, not New Town.

Because I was so bad, always complained to everything ; he, work, coldness... 
I love Wellington itself, it is a compact city, I particularly loved water front.
But to me, Wgtn is just a temporary place, and tough enough. 
He says Wgn is smarter than here, I agree. But people are not friendly.

Just earlier, I read a comment to my twitter from my new mixi friend who lives in Sweden. She said that in there, winter time, the sunrise is after 9 o'clock and sunset is 3pm!! She said it is tough. If I were her I would be depress... 
I also read some comments in a community that named "Teisyu Genki de Rusu ga II"
Most wives in the community have got some complain to their husbands, but some wives also think Thanks to their husbands. Today Zela said "Marriage is give and take"  
Zela lost her husband in 1991 by his cancer and after two years she felt loneliness, but after that she found "Comfortableness" that she had been own.   
I think women have two types, one is like Liz in Wings ; can not do anything herself, and another one is ; does not care, can do anything herself.

I sometimes like be belonged, but mostly time like having my space.
Living my own is tough. Live someone else is much easier.
But as Zela said "Give and Take" and we have to be patient to something.
And I should know feel thanks more than complain makes my life better.
(I am tired today too, so I have not cared about any grammar mistake)

I need to be SMILE as possible as I can. So everything will be fine.
But I am a stubborn person, so once I lost my smile, it takes long time to take it back! same as singing. How long I have not sang any Japanese song?!
I hate "Sing for him" "Keep my hair long for him"
If I WANT, I will do, if I don't want, I won't do. How I am a stubborn!
Maybe from my age....